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- Book Title
- He Chose Porn over Me : Women Harmed by Men Who Use Porn
- ISBN
- 9781925950588
- Subject Area
- Biography & Autobiography, Psychology, Social Science, Political Science
- Publication Name
- He Chose Porn over Me : Women Harmed by Men Who Use Porn
- Item Length
- 8.5 in
- Publisher
- Spinifex Press
- Subject
- Women, Human Rights, General, Interpersonal Relations
- Publication Year
- 2022
- Type
- Textbook
- Format
- Trade Paperback
- Language
- English
- Item Height
- 0.5 in
- Item Width
- 5.5 in
- Item Weight
- 9 Oz
- Number of Pages
- 208 Pages
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"He chose porn over me. Porn killed my marriage. It killed my trust. It destroyed my sense of self and understanding of true intimacy" --Courtney Shattering the popular myth that porn is harmless, the personal accounts of 25 brave women in "He Chose Porn over Me" reveal the real-life trauma experienced by women at the hands of their porn-consuming partners--men who were supposed to care for them. This confronting but necessary book dares to tell the truth about pornography's destructive impact--about the men who habitually use it and the women and children who are mistreated and discarded as a result. The women in this book were collateral damage in their partner's insatiable greed for porn. Their stories tell of the crushing of intimacy, respect, connection, love. Porn colonised their families, leaving women rejected and scarred. They were subjected to sexual terrorism in their own homes. The men, turbo-charged by pornography, were intoxicated by sexualised power. They didn't care if they lost everything including their partners. In this haunting exposé, pornography is rightfully situated as an insidious tool of violence against women.
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Spinifex Press
ISBN-10
1925950581
ISBN-13
9781925950588
eBay Product ID (ePID)
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Publication Name
He Chose Porn over Me : Women Harmed by Men Who Use Porn
Format
Trade Paperback
Language
English
Subject
Women, Human Rights, General, Interpersonal Relations
Publication Year
2022
Type
Textbook
Subject Area
Biography & Autobiography, Psychology, Social Science, Political Science
Number of Pages
208 Pages
Dimensions
Item Length
8.5 in
Item Height
0.5 in
Item Width
5.5 in
Item Weight
9 Oz
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"Occasionally a book comes along that changes the way we think about the world. "He Chose Porn Over Me": Women Harmed by Men Who Use Porn is such a book. Reading the stories of women whose partners chose porn is both heartbreaking and enraging, and can not be ignored. This book should light a fire under the anti-porn movement so we organize to rid the world of this misogynist, multi-billion- dollar predatory industry. Women deserve no less!" --Gail Dines PhD, Professor Emerita of Sociology, President: Culture Reframed "Thank goodness for this very much needed and extremely powerful book. The development of the porn industry has transformed the relations between the sexes. The advances women made have been severely undermined by the introduction of the rules of the brothel, contempt, misogyny, sexual abuse, to the lives and relationships of the women whose male partners are the consumers. We hear a lot about the poor men who are sex addicted or find their lives negatively affected. But of the women who suffer, almost nothing until this powerful exposé. Porn use needs to be understood as a serious aspect of men''s violence against women in the home. Not only are women''s relationships and sex lives destroyed, but they are also made responsible for trying to change the men. They are the ones who have to find counsellors for partners who have no interest in change. They have to nag and cajole until the abuse is too much and they must leave. Then they may lose custody of their children, their homes, and face poverty. This book will do a great service of warning women and helping them decide to leave. I hope it will spur the feminist campaigns for the abolition of pornography too!" --Sheila Jeffreys, author of Penile Imperialism: The Male Sex Right and Women''s Subordination and Trigger Warning: My Lesbian Feminist Life " To read "He Chose Porn Over Me" is a heartbreaking roller-coaster. The testimonies are diverse, but the message is the same: when men use porn, women and children suffer. The bravery and clarity these women offer on the real impact of pornography on relationships, families, sexual intimacy, physical safety and emotional connection, is groundbreaking. Melinda''s thorough and astute research and commentary demonstrates that we urgently need to view porn as the pervasive and destructive weapon it is, and work together to teach our children about safe, respectful and loving sexuality." --Anna McGahan, actor and playwright "It''s impossible to count the number of victims produced by the allegedly ''victimless'' activities in the sexual-exploitation industries. "He Chose Porn Over Me" documents the incredible pain and suffering - psychological and often physical - of women whose partners are compulsive pornography users. The stories collected by Melinda Tankard Reist are heart-breaking, both for the women who endured the abuse and for readers willing to look honestly at men''s controlling and corrosive behaviour. But these stories also remind us of how women''s courage and resilience provide a way out of abusive relationships." --Robert Jensen, emeritus professor, University of Texas at Austin, author of The End of Patriarchy: Radical Feminism for Men "In "He Chose Porn Over Me" Melinda Tankard Reist has pulled back the curtain on the too-often secret and misunderstood lives of the partners who are impacted by men''s porn use. She gives voice to these women who have had their hearts broken, trust shattered and lives turned upside down, enabling them to tell the stories they have kept silent about for so long. This book is an important documentation of the real relational and emotional harm caused to so many by compulsive sexual behaviours by men. I applaud Melinda and all the brave women who shared their stories." --Paul Lavergne, Psychotherapist, Sexual Recovery Therapist, Educator, Trainer, and Creator of The Damage Control Protocol
Table of Content
IntroductionMelinda Tankard ReistHe chose porn over me.Courtney CatEarthHe used me like a blow-up doll.FlorenceThe pornography warped his mind. He believed all women wanted to have sex with him.SarahI left my first husband because of porn. My second husband promised he didn' t use it. He lied.CatherineThey looked like his students.CeratoniaHow can he say he loves me if he finds the women in porn more attractive?AmaliaI longed for intimacy, but he could not have sex without imagining that I was a prostitute.AnnieI lost touch with my integrity, I lost my bearings.SharniI was being groomed to become a porn star in the bedroom.MaggieIf you stay ... a glimpse into your future if you marry a porn addict.Sarah McDugalYou' ve burned down my house and everything in it.GingerHe tried to kill me.MoriahPorn, sex chat rooms, nude beaches ... but I was blamed for the end of our marriage.MayaThe compromise to my integrity and my value as a woman felt too great to continue this life with him.CarlaI am a broken woman ... I guess he' s happy enough with his digital girls.EvelynI was disturbed that I was in a relationship with someone who enjoyed getting off on abuse and hatred of women.GemmaI knew in my heart that staying would be a slow, agonising death.SerenaI felt blackmailed into sex to keep a stable home for my children. I saw myself as a prostitute.LucyHe expected me to be up for sex at any time. RivkaBlood rushed to my face, my body went cold: I found multiple searches for ' teen porn' .AngieI had always taught my kids about stranger danger, but I had a monster in our home. MareeI was told it was my fault. Somehow he became the victim.KateHe told me I was being unreasonable, that all men watch porn, and that all men masturbate ... ReneeRun like your house is on fire. MelissaHe expected me to be available for him, even if I was sick, tired, had my period, recovering from surgery or having a baby.TashGlossaryResources
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